Not a casual, “Hey, Babe” but a deep, whispered.
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I may say things in scene that I would never consider issuing from my mouth outside of those confines. norwalklocksmith.info › tag › naming-a-submissive. With that disclaimer out of the way: House Unicron is a submissive polyamorous House. Because of this, I tend to refer to s-types using female pronouns and D-types using male pronouns.
It is specific and unique just to her. To do less, in my opinion, is to do yourself, your s-type s and your House a grave disservice. Pet names, spoken seductively, are a trigger for me. This sounds counterintuitive until you remember that in name to being a cisgendered male, a D-type and a Sadist, I am also a feminist.
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But don't worry, I'll be back soon with something even better. I also believe, like many people do, that names have a unique power all their own that is largely independent of the precise configuration of letters and phonemes of which the names consist. There is a difference.
These names often make people do a double-take, especially when they know the provenance of my own lifestyle name. Still, when she told me this on our first meeting, my response was a hard flinch and an immediate resolution to do better.
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As we discussed on TastyTuesdaynaming and titling namees are largely meaningless. Like most of my conventions, the reason for this is simple if not immediately obvious. The same words spoken by another person may be insulting or offensive. Learning what specific words carry power for a sub is like understanding how to arouse the body of a woman. As with everything else I write, these pronouns should be taken to refer ONLY name the dynamics within House Unicron and varied as appropriate to your specific dynamic, gender and orientation or lack of same.
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Skwirly was named for her somewhat skittish but playful name, as well as a sketch from The Swedish Chef. The name should reflect something she strives to be, Bdsm breast nipple and or attain. She is Secondary on paper, but in practice serves as my right hand on matters regarding training and House management, because she has spent more continuous time on submissive sides of the slash than anyone else in the House and demonstrates sound judgment in submisssive matters.
More importantly, it is my belief that a woman who chooses to submit to her D-type is worthy of the utmost respect and care.
I would never say those terms outside the bedroom to any woman but in the bedroom with my partner, they take on a specific understood meaning. Using tumblr with an subissive, clean and efficient interface was my goal. She can achieve mental orgasm through messaging online with her Dom. I do not give my girls anything. She wanted to lose weight. Today is a sad day. Names like “Cyclonus,”.
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What are your naming conventions? If you are a female D-type with a coterie of male s-types, flip the script as appropriate for your own situation. She enjoys a longer leash but less leeway than Skwirly. Nnames men avoid using them fearing the backlash if used in the wrong context whereas I find their taboo nature empowering and arousing.
The hierarchy I have established serves my needs and that of my girls, and establishes a progression based upon seniority, submissive and ongoing role negotiation. Collars, names and position are not bestowed as a matter of right within my House. She is still learning about herself and what she needs and wants out of the lifestyle, and I am deeply honored that she and her sisters within the House have chosen me to guide in their explorations.
Therefore, a name is the first and most evident criterion for how a D-type conducts himself with his s-types and what she can expect eubmissive him in terms of care, devotion and guidance, to my way of name.
Do you keep it only behind closed doors, or do you introduce her publicly under the name you have negotiated? Thus, Sparrow. If you want to stay informed of future writings, please subscribe to notifications or Twitter.
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She identified with birds. A name is the most important gift you can give your s-type, and it is not something that should be undertaken lightly. “Baby” is common but has the power to set my blood on fire.
These names often make people do a double-take, especially when they know the provenance of my own lifestyle name. As an interesting side note, she had been considering a tattoo of a sparrow for a year before submissivw met, and I was pleased to be at her side when she finally got it done in February.